Hey I finally had a reason to post a reply.
I never was became a JW but I had started going initially because my wife was real involved.
There was one thing that the JW told me that floored me. I was really concerned about how the blood policy had
kill children. I said that any adult that wanted to believe, that was their right, but I was really bother by allowing children to make
a life threatening decision like that. They could not possibly have the understanding or be allowed to make that choice. Then the JW said
"What makes the difference if you die when your 10 years old or 70 years old?!" Boy did he do me a favor... that did it for me!
By the way, my wife is still in and has been baptized. I try not to intervene much and I hoping that she some day will see the light.